Tahara is the physical and spiritual preparation of the deceased (meyt/meyta) for burial. Just as
Jews have ancient traditions for welcoming a newborn, there are proscribed customs for preparing the dead for burial.
Trained volunteers (haverim) from the Community Hevra Kadisha of Greater Boston perform
the tahara with respect and tenderness, assisting the transition of the body and soul from
this world. Women care for women, men for men and regard their participation as a privilege as well as an act of loving kindness.
Your rabbi or the funeral director at the Brezniak-Rodman Funeral Chapel in West Newton can arrange
for tahara to be done by the Community Hevra Kadisha of Greater Boston (call 617-969-0800)
HOW A TAHARA IS DONE
- Team prepares the room and aron (coffin) to perform the tahara. Soil from Israel is sprinkled in the aron. A sheet/shroud and a tallit are
placed in the aron.
- Team asks met/meta for forgiveness before beginning.
- Prayers and readings are recited during the tahara ritual.
- Inspect the condition of met/meta and then perform the initial washing and grooming as required.
- Elevate the body off the table using wooden boards (so
no part of the body rests on the table).
- Perform the Tahara ritual by pouring a continuous flow of three buckets of water (24 quarts) over
the met/meta.
- Carefully dry the met/meta and in preparation for dressing.
- Dress the met/meta starting with the head covering, pants, inner shirt, and outer shirt (kittel). Ribbons are tied around the ankles. A special knot is used for all ties.
- Met/meta is placed in
the aron (coffin). Remaining soil sprinkled over the met/meta . Pottery shards are placed on the eyelids. Tallit is wrapped around the met and
one tassel is either cut off or knotted to make the tallit pasul- ritually
unfit. Met/meta is wrapped in the sheet/shroud.
- Wooden cover is placed on the aron. Team asks the met/meta for forgiveness for any inadvertant indiscretions.